update ui and other frontend updates

frontend/src/routes/join/[code]/[member]/+page.server.ts

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+import { fail, redirect } from '@sveltejs/kit';
+import { setDeviceTokenCookie } from '$lib/server/auth';
+import { SERVER_IP, PROXY_PORT } from '../../../../../../config.ts';
+
+const HONO_URL = `http://${SERVER_IP}:${PROXY_PORT}`;
+
+export const actions = {
+	default: async (event) => {
+		const code = event.params.code;
+		const name = event.params.member;
+
+		const res = await fetch(`${HONO_URL}/api/members/direct-join`, {
+			method: 'POST',
+			headers: { 'Content-Type': 'application/json' },
+			body: JSON.stringify({ inviteCode: code, name }),
+		});
+		const data = await res.json();
+		if (!res.ok) return fail(400, { error: data.error || 'Join failed' });
+
+		setDeviceTokenCookie(event, data.deviceToken);
+
+		throw redirect(303, `/${data.famSlug}/${data.name}`);
+	},
+};

frontend/src/routes/join/[code]/[member]/+page.svelte

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+<script lang="ts">
+	import { page } from '$app/state';
+	import { enhance } from '$app/forms';
+
+	let { form } = $props();
+	let memberName = $derived(page.params.member);
+</script>
+
+<h1>Join family</h1>
+
+{#if form?.error}
+	<p class="error">{form.error}</p>
+{:else}
+	<p>Click below to join as <strong>{memberName}</strong></p>
+{/if}
+
+<form method="POST" use:enhance>
+	<button type="submit">Join</button>
+</form>
+
+<style>
+	.error { color: #dc2626; padding: 0.5rem; background: #fef2f2; border-radius: 4px; }
+	button { padding: 0.75rem 1.5rem; background: #6366f1; color: white; border: none; border-radius: 4px; cursor: pointer; font-size: 1rem; }
+</style>